"Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ." —Galatians 1:10
One of humanity's deepest fears is the fear of rejection—rejection by loved ones, friends, colleagues, or society. In our quest to avoid rejection and win approval, we often:
- Silence our personal convictions.
- Let go of cherished values.
- Sabotage our goals.
- Even fall into sin to please others.
But is it worth it?
Does compromising our values on the altar of people-pleasing truly endear us to others? Does it bring peace, or does it leave us feeling tossed to and fro, like a ship caught in an unpredictable storm?
A Steady Anchor
Like a guiding post at sea, steadfast in the waves, let only one thing anchor your intentions and actions: the will of God. By living for His approval rather than the fleeting whims of people, you:
- Free yourself from the control of others’ expectations.
- Gain stability and clarity in your life.
- Become an instrument worthy of the Master’s service.
Reflection Questions
- What values are you tempted to compromise for the sake of a relationship, friendship, or promotion?
- Is it worth it to trade your convictions for temporary approval?
Choosing to anchor your life on pleasing God rather than people will not only increase your stability but also align you with His perfect will. It’s a decision that shapes you into a steadfast, purposeful servant of Christ.
Prayer
Lord, help me to seek Your approval above all else. Strengthen me to hold fast to my convictions and values, even when it is difficult. Anchor my heart and mind in Your will, so I may live as a worthy servant of Christ. Amen.
Shalom.
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